🇨🇳 Lesson 4: Greetings & Essential Phrases

🎯 What You'll Learn

Now that you know Pinyin and basic characters, it's time to start speaking! This lesson covers greetings, introductions, polite expressions, and essential survival phrases for daily conversation.

Estimated Time: 45–60 minutes

👋 Basic Greetings

ChinesePinyinEnglishUsage
你好nǐ hǎoHelloUniversal greeting, slightly formal
您好nín hǎoHello (formal)Respectful — elders, bosses, strangers
大家好dàjiā hǎoHello everyoneGreeting a group
早上好zǎoshang hǎoGood morningBefore ~10am
下午好xiàwǔ hǎoGood afternoonAfternoon hours
晚上好wǎnshang hǎoGood eveningEvening hours
晚安wǎn'ānGood nightBefore bed
再见zàijiànGoodbyeStandard farewell
拜拜bàibàiBye-byeCasual farewell (from English)
💡 Cultural Insight: In casual daily life, Chinese people often greet each other not with "你好" but with situational questions like "你吃了吗?" (Nǐ chī le ma? — Have you eaten?) or "你去哪儿?" (Nǐ qù nǎr? — Where are you going?). These aren't real questions — they're just friendly greetings, like "How's it going?" in English. A simple "吃了" (Chī le — I ate) is a perfect response!

🤝 Introductions

ChinesePinyinEnglish
我叫...wǒ jiào...My name is... (I'm called...)
我姓...wǒ xìng...My surname is...
你叫什么名字?nǐ jiào shénme míngzi?What's your name?
你贵姓?nǐ guì xìng?What is your surname? (polite)
认识你很高兴rènshi nǐ hěn gāoxìngNice to meet you
我是美国人wǒ shì měiguó rénI'm American
我是学生wǒ shì xuéshēngI'm a student
你呢?nǐ ne?And you? / What about you?

✅ Grammar Note: 姓 vs 叫

姓 (xìng) is used for surnames only: 我姓王 (Wǒ xìng Wáng — My surname is Wang)

叫 (jiào) is used for full names or given names: 我叫王明 (Wǒ jiào Wáng Míng — My name is Wang Ming)

In China, the surname comes first: 王明 = Wang (surname) + Ming (given name).

🙏 Polite Expressions

ChinesePinyinEnglishNotes
谢谢xièxieThank youUniversal thanks
非常感谢fēicháng gǎnxièThank you very muchMore formal/emphatic
不客气bú kèqiYou're welcomeLiterally "don't be polite"
没关系méi guānxiIt's OK / No problemResponse to 对不起
对不起duìbuqǐSorryGenuine apology
不好意思bù hǎo yìsiExcuse me / SorryMild embarrassment / getting attention
qǐngPleaseUsed before verbs
请问qǐngwènExcuse me, may I ask...?Polite way to start a question
💡 Cultural Insight: Chinese culture has a concept called 客气 (kèqi) — being politely modest. When someone praises you, the typical response is to deflect: "哪里哪里" (nǎlǐ nǎlǐ — "Where? Where?") or "没有没有" (méiyǒu méiyǒu — "No, no"). Accepting compliments directly can feel boastful.

❓ Essential Question Words

ChinesePinyinEnglishExample
什么shénmewhat这是什么?(Zhè shì shénme? — What is this?)
shéi / shuíwho他是谁?(Tā shì shéi? — Who is he?)
哪里 / 哪儿nǎlǐ / nǎrwhere你在哪儿?(Nǐ zài nǎr? — Where are you?)
什么时候shénme shíhouwhen你什么时候来?(When are you coming?)
为什么wèi shénmewhy你为什么学中文?(Why do you study Chinese?)
怎么zěnmehow这个怎么说?(How do you say this?)
多少duōshaohow many/much多少钱?(Duōshao qián? — How much?)

💡 Grammar Note: Questions with 吗 (ma)

The simplest way to form a yes/no question: add to the end of a statement.

你好。(Hello.) → 你好吗? (How are you? / Are you well?)

他是学生。(He is a student.) → 他是学生吗? (Is he a student?)

No word order change needed — just add 吗!

🆘 Survival Phrases

ChinesePinyinEnglish
我不明白wǒ bù míngbaiI don't understand
请再说一遍qǐng zài shuō yí biànPlease say it again
请说慢一点qǐng shuō màn yìdiǎnPlease speak more slowly
这个用中文怎么说?zhège yòng zhōngwén zěnme shuō?How do you say this in Chinese?
我在学中文wǒ zài xué zhōngwénI'm learning Chinese
你会说英语吗?nǐ huì shuō yīngyǔ ma?Do you speak English?
厕所在哪儿?cèsuǒ zài nǎr?Where is the bathroom?
我需要帮助wǒ xūyào bāngzhùI need help

💬 Practice Dialogues

🗣️ Dialogue 1: First Meeting

A: 你好!我叫大卫。你叫什么名字?

(Nǐ hǎo! Wǒ jiào Dàwèi. Nǐ jiào shénme míngzi?)

Hello! My name is David. What's your name?

B: 你好!我叫小红。你是哪国人?

(Nǐ hǎo! Wǒ jiào Xiǎohóng. Nǐ shì nǎ guó rén?)

Hello! I'm Xiaohong. What country are you from?

A: 我是美国人。你呢?

(Wǒ shì Měiguó rén. Nǐ ne?)

I'm American. And you?

B: 我是中国人。认识你很高兴!

(Wǒ shì Zhōngguó rén. Rènshi nǐ hěn gāoxìng!)

I'm Chinese. Nice to meet you!

🗣️ Dialogue 2: At a Coffee Shop

A: 请问,这是什么?

(Qǐngwèn, zhè shì shénme?)

Excuse me, what is this?

B: 这是绿茶。你要吗?

(Zhè shì lǜchá. Nǐ yào ma?)

This is green tea. Do you want some?

A: 好的,谢谢!多少钱?

(Hǎo de, xièxie! Duōshao qián?)

OK, thanks! How much?

B: 十五块。

(Shíwǔ kuài.)

15 yuan.

📝 Quiz

1. How do you say "What's your name?" in Mandarin?

2. Someone says "谢谢" to you. What's a natural response?

3. How do you turn "他是老师" (He is a teacher) into a question?

4. A Chinese person asks you "你吃了吗?" (Have you eaten?). What does this usually mean?

📚 Summary

🎯 Key Takeaways

Greetings: 你好 (general), 您好 (formal), plus time-of-day variations.

Introductions: 我叫... (full name), 我姓... (surname). Surname comes first in Chinese names.

Polite phrases: 谢谢 (thanks), 对不起 (sorry), 请 (please), 不客气 (you're welcome).

Questions: Add 吗 for yes/no questions. Use 什么, 谁, 哪儿, 怎么, 为什么 for specific questions.

Culture: "Have you eaten?" is a greeting. Deflecting compliments shows modesty.